Frequently Asked Questions

 
 
  • Most parents seek coaching to feel less anxious and more empowered. They want to be more confident in their parenting and learn different ways to address the challenges they are facing. A coach can help you understand your unique parenting style and strengths and how to leverage them. Further, a coach offers resources and strategies that help you manage your current reality, learn better self-care, and consider your core values.

  • • Being a new parent/bringing home baby

    • Self-care/stress reduction

    • Resilience

    • Toddlers and tantrums/dysregulation

    • Technology limits and guidelines

    • School issues

    • Sibling dynamics

    • Parental guilt

    • Co-parenting difficulties

    • Limit setting/discipline

    • Communication/listening

    • Academic transitions

    • Parenting a college student/young adult

  • • A coaching relationship that promises your parenting decisions will reflect your values

    • A safe place to authentically share your strengths and challenges without judgment, along with the support and guidance to help you feel more capable, confident, and in control as a parent

    • Sharing of experience and wisdom that deepens your understanding of the stages and typical behaviors throughout childhood development

    • Empathy and understanding during the inevitable tough parenting times

    • Levity! A sense of humor always makes parenting easier

  • • Identification of your parenting strengths and those of your support system — and strategies for optimizing them

    • Prioritization of parental self-care to build your resilience

    • Concrete skills, tools, and resources to improve your family’s communication and collaboration so everyone feels seen, heard, and recognized as vital family members

    • Comprehensive email summaries of our coaching sessions to help you track your progress and reflect on your journey

  • We start with a free intake call so I can learn about your needs/concerns and share information about my practice. After that you will fill out an intake assessment and we will both sign a coaching agreement. Once those documents are received, I will schedule our first session when it is convenient for your schedule.

  • As a parent coach, I only meet with the parents. I trust that you can accurately share your concerns with me and we can partner effectively to address them. This is a space reserved just for you to learn your strengths, clarify your values, and co-construct your preferred future for your family.

  • I am happy to work with anyone in the role of parent who would like to participate. I do not require that both/all parents are engaged.

  • Absolutely. I have a particular affinity for divorced parents as I grew up with divorced parents and am divorced myself. I am proud of wonderful results with parents who have worked to co-parent effectively after divorce.

  • I offer both phone and Zoom sessions which can accommodate your schedule and obviate any commuting time. Self-selected group sessions may be in person.

  • One-on-One Coaching – Individual coaching is a good fit for a parent eager to identify their own style/strengths and work on their own parenting challenges.

    Couples Coaching – Couples/partners can choose to be coached together to address their unique styles and ways in which they may complement one another. This is also an effective forum for separated/divorced couples to learn to co-parent more effectively and stay focused on what is best for the children.

    Group Coaching – Group coaching is for parents facing similar challenges with like-aged children. This cohort approach allows for members to learn from each other and can be a cost-effective option for a self-selected group.

 

Recommended Reading

 
 

The Blessing of a Skinned Knee: Raising Self-Reliant Children

Wendy Mogel

I first encountered this in a book club for parents at my children’s elementary school. In the inside cover of my copy I wrote, “Everyday isn’t perfect, don’t fear the pain.” Reading Mogel’s first book was a sigh of relief for this young mom striving to do right by her children. Today, it is still one of my favorites as I have seen through years of work with parents and children the extraordinary value of resilience.

Julie Lythcott-Haims’ missive ought to be required reading for all parents. The best intentioned parents often overparent in their efforts to protect, guide or shape their children. This accessible book makes a compelling case for parenting to build competent and confident children while preserving our sanity and sense of self.

There is no shortage of research on the impact of screens and technology on our children. Shlain’s beautiful book offers an opportunity to find balance for yourselves and your kids. After reading this book, I was empowered to be intentional around how we as a family allowed technology to both intrude into and enrich our lives and our relationships.

 
 

Additional Reading